What is a shit test?

A shit test is a term commonly used in the pickup artist community to describe a type of challenge or provocation that a woman may intentionally or unintentionally throw at a man to test his confidence, assertiveness, and ability to handle pressure. Shit tests can come in various forms, such as teasing, sarcasm, criticism, or playful banter.

The purpose of a shit test is to assess a man's strength of character and how he reacts in difficult or uncomfortable situations. Men who pass these tests by remaining calm, confident, and unfazed are seen as attractive and dominant, while those who fail by becoming defensive, insecure, or seeking validation are seen as weak and unattractive.

It is important to note that not all interactions between men and women are shit tests, and not all women use them consciously. Some women may naturally be more playful, challenging, or assertive in their communication style, which can be mistaken for a shit test. The key is to handle any challenges or provocations with grace, confidence, and a sense of humor, without taking things too seriously.